SPK AbbaLove

Now, this is a pretty awkward(strange) teaching in churches called AbbaLove.
They said "We don't Recognize about Dating, In the Bible said nothing about Dating, there's only Marriage". So many of the cell group community especially girl, dump their sinful boyfriend which have those sin hand :) . So most of them said, "next time if somebody like me, i'd ask him if he's serious with me and jump to marriage".
My girlfriend is in one of their churches. After she said about this, I said " Bloody Hell, What the? are you crazy? People Dating because they want to know each other Character cause you'll be living with that character for the next of your live And a relationship is based on understanding and need more adjustment than you can even think". Relationship will go nothing further with out any effort, even a dog need to take care of, treat right, not to mention HUMAN. her bos which is christian disagree with this too, and most of the guys i think LOL.

I said also "THere's CAN NOT be that BIBLE written about Maria and josef going for a date in somewhere doing this and that??", "or Some Prophets Took His wife for a romantic dinner in some restaurant" Would'nt it?

This is what you called, not mature Mind Set, and social Life.
Which comes from Indonesian perspectives. "Hide those Sex things or Everything refers to it or smell like it undercover, it's taboo"